A reason, a season or a lifetime

Isn't it incredible how the right people come into our lives when we need it the most? I am continually amazed by this phenomenon even though it has happened so much in my life. Even when we aren't looking for guidance, somehow, we are given it and the moment the person leaves, it's like a light goes on and we realize, "Wow! This person really helped me to realize ______". At least, that's the way it has always been for me. I'm sure if you think back on your life and remember the people who are or who have been a part of it, you may be able to make sense of the moment and what it was that they brought to your life’s' table that enriched you. It's the concept that people come into our lives for a reason, a season or a lifetime. Not everyone we meet will be ours forever but it's ok. We weave intricate networks that work together and eventually, form a beautiful overall picture.
My best friend gave me so much before he died. When he passed away last June I felt like knowing him had been such a curse. I thought I'd never get over grieving and I never wanted to feel that sense of loss ever again. But after a while of working through the hurt, I realize what a blessing it was to have had such a wonderful friendship like the one we had. He taught me so much about love, life, friendships, loyalty. And his words of wisdom still resonate with me. He is not here but I feel like if he is on the other side, he is on my side. And there is nothing better than feeling like someone is watching out for you all the time. It gives me a stronger sense of connection to my universe, I guess. Sometimes people come into our lives for a short time but what they give us lasts our lifetime. Today I am thankful for those people who are in my life, or who have come and gone. I will not mourn the loss because I have lost nothing at all.